Do You Need an RSVP Card With Your Wedding Invitations?

Farha Caldicott

You've got your wedding invitations sorted, but there's one more question: Do you actually need an RSVP card?

The short answer is: not necessarily.

There are plenty of ways to collect RSVPs now, from wedding websites and QR codes to email or simply asking guests to get in touch. But a traditional RSVP card can still be a really useful part of your wedding invitation suite.

So, let's look at what they are, what to include and whether they're the right choice for your wedding.

What is an RSVP card?

An RSVP card is a small card sent alongside your wedding invitation that gives your guests a way to let you know whether they'll be attending.

It can be as simple as:

"Name: __________

Joyfully accepts / Regretfully declines"

Or you can use it to collect a little more information, such as meal choices or dietary requirements.

Usually, your guests fill it in and return it to you before your RSVP deadline.

 

Do you actually need one?

Nope. You can collect RSVPs however works best for you and your guests.

Some couples use a wedding website, while others ask guests to RSVP by email, phone or through a QR code.

A physical RSVP card can be a good option if you want to keep everything together as part of your invitation suite, or if you know some of your guests would prefer not to reply online.

It's really about choosing the option that makes managing your guest list easiest for you.

What should you include on an RSVP card?

You don't need to overcomplicate it. The main thing is making sure you get the information you actually need.

That could include:

  • A space for your guest's name
  • Whether they can attend
  • Their meal choice, if you're offering options
  • Dietary requirements
  • Any other information you need before the wedding

You'll also want to make it clear when they need to respond by.

 

Don't forget the return details

If you're asking guests to post their RSVP card back to you, they'll need to know where to send it. You can include your return address on the card itself or provide a separate RSVP envelope.

If you're collecting responses another way, make the instructions clear. Whether that's a QR code, website or email address, your guests shouldn't have to guess what they're supposed to do next.

So, do you need an RSVP card?

If a physical RSVP card works for you, then absolutely.

They're a simple way to keep your guest responses organised, collect any extra information you need and keep everything looking cohesive with the rest of your wedding stationery.

But they're not essential. You can go fully digital, use a mix of both, or choose another method entirely.

Your invitations, your guest list and your wedding. Do what works best for you.

If you're looking for RSVP cards to match your wedding stationery, you can take a look at the RSVP card collection at Caldicott & Co. Link below!

 

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